20131030

11.35 PM

I was on Facebook and I saw someone on the home feed posted a video about a wedding proposal of someone. This video shows a man and his girlfriend all aboard to somewhere not mentioned, then all of a sudden a group of six people got up and danced all over the cabin to the sound of Bruno Mars' Marry Me. The man suddenly came up and asked his girlfriend to stand up, then popped the question.

Apparently the girl said yes.

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Am I the only one who thought public wedding proposals are embarrassing and unnecessary?

Don't you want to just drive your girl to somewhere with a beautiful scenery where you two can be alone (by alone I mean completely alone!), start to express this cheesy-ass things you rehearsed the day before in front of your bathroom mirror, and ask the million dollar question?

It's simple yet so touching, and fuss-free!

The thing about public proposals is this, yeah maybe you thought it's gonna be so romantic and everyone's gonna start this 'awww'-fest. To me it's not, it will only put your girl in an awkward situation where she's pressured to do what you want her to do, to insincerely and forcefully say yes. A girl's gotta think thru the future! Proposing her this way won't give your girl much time to think clearly. What if she still have doubts about you? She can't just dump you in front of the world like that!

With that many eyes focused on her, hoping she would take the ring, I can imagine her being so stressed out and wanting to die right there. THE AILING PRESSURE.

If you truly love your girl, you wouldn't want to put so much burden on her that way.

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20130913

TOO LONG; DIDN'T READ.

HALO

duh udah lama banget ya? terakhir ngepost itu kelas 9 which is what.. 3 years ago? jaman dulu sih selalu ada aja yah yang bisa diceritakeun dan terlalu banyak waktu luang juga... huf kangen SMP :(

ya perkembangannya sih sekarang gw sudah lulus SMA, lulus dari SMA dua digit yang ada di bilangan Kebayoran Baru yang katanya biangnya bullying disekolah. masa sih? gapernah tuh gw ditindas kakak kelas gw..... dan katanya sekolah gw suka banget tauran, sotoy aja yah orang sekolah gw alim taat pada aturan dan cinta perdamaian.......

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yaudah ngaku deh, beneran ada sih, udah jadi rahasia umum yang tidak bisa terpungkiri~ terdengarnya menakutkan ya, itu juga salah satu hal yang membuat gw sempet diharamkan sekolah disana. jujur gw takut banget masuk sana pertama kali, banyak lah hal yang perlu diadaptasikan karena emang atmosphere-nya beda banget sama 115, or any junior high schools in general. tapi setelah dijalani dan dilewati, kenapa jadi kangen ya? awalnya gw pikir gw doang kali ya yang ngerasa kaya gini, well now I obviously know I'm not the only one.

ga semua tentang sekolah gw benar adanya dan ga semua hal yang ada di sekolah gw itu berbau negatif. tolong dimengerti. masyarakat luas cuma liat tentang sekolah gw ya dari media massa yang kadang (SELALU DENG) lebay. dan mereka yang denger langsung terima aja tanpa mau mempedulikan our side of the story. ya begitulah, gimana orang mau pinter ya. semua langsung diserap gitu aja

kalo bahasa jaman smp sih "ga diayak"

hal yang ada di sekolah gw ini malah mengajarkan gw banyak hal, in a positive way. seperti mencoba mengurangi ngeluh, mengajarkan pentingnya solidaritas, menerima yang ada dan jadi lebih kuat menghadapi dunia yang kejam..cielah pret dut. OIYA ga lupa sekolah gw juga mengajarkan money management, yang dulu gw takuuut banget megang uang banyak jadi bisa ngurusnya....

yay...? *straight face*

terlalu banyak sih yang bisa diceritakan tentang sekolah saya yang 'one of a kind' ini, kasian sama yang baca kalo kebanyakan hehe (bilang aja males) (emang ada yang baca?)


yak ngomongin sekolah jadi kepikiran kuliah yang katanya dihormatin/ditinggikan banget gituuuh. di SMA sih gw ditempatkan di jurusan IPA, which is not my kind of thing. 'loh kenapa masuk IPA kalo kaya gitu?' itu dia, gw milihnya IPS kok dulu, tapi my lovely dearest scumbag school malah naro gw di jurusan IPA. bisa sih pindah, tapi gw masih kekeuh di IPA karena gw pikir 'mungkin ini yang terbaik'.....PRET.

nah karena masalah salah jurusan ini gw selalu dapet nilai yang....ga berbentuk deh pokoknya. baru nih kuliah nanti mau memperbaiki kesalahan gw dan ngambil jurusan IPS waktu. hehe nambah-nambah saingan aja, jangan marah ya anak-anak IPS... Alhamdulillah orangtua support semua pilihan pekerjaan yang terkadang bodoh dan yang selalu berubah dari waktu ke waktu. dulu pingin jadi dokter, astronaut, marine biologist (tertarik gara-gara kebanyakan nonton Spongebob..), penjaga tol (what the fuck), waitress, dokter lagi, lawyer, diplomat, arsitek.. apalagi ya? beragam dah. normal sih seseorang untuk ganti-ganti cita-cita as we know ourselves deeper.

so, i started my third year of high school with high hopes. to try to get back to a right path. or at least i thought it's a better option than what i had that time.


AND THEN FATE STOPPED BY AND TOOK THE STEER.